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An older child may tell a lie to avoidReplica Louis Vuitton trouble or not accept responsibility for their actions. Parents should address these isolated incidences to children about truthfulness and honesty in general. Keep it very brief. Modeling and showing honesty to your young ones may help more than a lecture.Some children learn than it may be approperiate to lie for some valid reasons such as lying to avoid hurting someone's feeling. Sometimes teenagers lie to have a feeling of autonomy and independence. For example if parents do not like them to do hang with "wrong crowd", they may still do it because want to prove that they now can make their own decisions.



When should you become concerned: Some Louis Vuitton handbagschildren, who know the difference between truthfulness and lying, tell elaborate stories which appear believable. Children or adolescents usually relate these stories with enthusiasm because they receive a lot of attention as they tell the lie.Other children or adolescents, who otherwise seem responsible, fall into a pattern of repetitive lying. They often feel that lying is the easiest way to deal with the demands of parents, teachers and friends. These children are usually not trying to be bad or malicious but the repetitive pattern of lying becomes a bad habit.



The last group of children and teenagers areGucci handbags those who lack emotions and empathy for others. They are self centered and focussed on their own needs. They may lie ently and may even steal to meet their own needs. They may not show emotions that other people show when some one is hurt or sad. These children often require help to address issues of persistent lyingWhat to do if a Child or Adolescent lies: Appropriate role modeling is very important from early on. It is not very smart to ask your kid to tell Uncle Tom that you are not home when you are. Do not buy your son "under ten ticket" when he actually is 12 yers old. That is not a good role model.




If a child or teenager lies, parents should takePrada Handbags some time to have a serious discussion on the difference between lie and the truth, Threatening them with dire consequence may not be helpful. Rather it may be wise to tell them that the guilty person should confess by bedtime. Praise them if they do. Later work out about the cosequences for breaking the rule. the importance of honesty at home and in the community, and other options to lying Telling them how their lying affects others and how they will feel if same thing happens to them. For a child who chronically lies in many different ituations and have other issues such as stealing or lack of empathy should be assessed by your physicians. Contact your diatrician. Evaluation by a pediatrician would help the child and parents understand the underlying cause and plan strategies for the future.